Orgasm Denial & BDSM Chat

Chat for submissives, Dominants, and everyone!

Where's the chat? Everywhere! CumDenyHer chat is fully integrated and appears on every page. In fact, you are logged in right now. Just click the raspberry coloured "Who's on CDH?" button to open it up on the bottom of every window.

Below I will cover how to do some basic things, but it's pretty intuitive. Here are some less obvious features:

  • Automatic Login: As soon as you enter CumDenyHer, you are logged into chat as an anonymous Lurker and can start chatting right away.
  • Registered User Login: If you register as a member, you'll no longer be a Lurker. When you sign in to CumDenyHer, your chat name will change to that of your profile along with your user image.
  • Universal Presence: Chat will be with you on every page and will stay live. That means that the Public Chat Room stays up-to-date along with all of your private conversations.
  • Private Chat: You can privately message anyone online, anonymous (Lurker) or registered user.
  • User Integration: If a registered user is online (without the title Lurker) you can view their CumDenyHer profile page. Registered users also have their avatar displayed (if they have added that to their profile.)
  • Mobile Capable: On your phone or tablet, click the small chat icon at the bottom right of your screen. Chat (with all the usual features) will open in a new window.

Guidelines for Chat

The topic of this chat ... (wait for it) ... Female Orgasm Control and Denial!

A few guidelines:

  • Be nice. Discussions can get intense, and that's great, but stay civilized and don't get personal.
  • Be safe. Don't post your email, address, or anything else you wouldn't want posted all over the internet.
  • All are equal. If you choose to use BDSM online etiquette, that is your choice, but it is not required.
  • No spamming or advertising.
  • Have fun!

In the future we may implement more topic and/or user specific chat rooms. "Sub Chat" for subs/teasees, "Role Play" for those who want to get all creative, and "BDSM Chat" for those who want the etiquette and activities involved. Please let us know what you'd like to see!

BDSM Chat User's Guide

orgasm-denial-chat.jpg To open chat, click on this button at the bottom right hand of almost any CumDenyHer page. The (#) is how many users are currently online.
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This is the control panel. Here you will see:

  • Your own chat name (either your CumDenyHer member name or Lurker Something if you are an anonymous user.
  • "CDH Chat Room" button which opens the public chat room
  • Active Users includes all users online, both anonymous and registered members
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By clicking on your name or the cog icon, you can access various controls.

  • Change your name if you are an anonymous user (pencil icon)
  • Log in to CumDenyHer (pencil icon)
  • Set your availability
  • Turn off sound notifications
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You can tell an anonymous user from a registered member a few ways.

  • Anonymous users always have the title "Lurker".
  • Registered members often have personal avatars/pictures next to their names.
  • When you click the the chatter's name in the main chat room or in private chat, if "View Profile" is an option, then that is a registered member.

Clicking "View Profile" will take you to that member's page on CumDenyHer. "Send Message" will open up a private chat window with that visitor. You can private message both registered and anonymous users.

female-orgasm-denial-chat-bdsm.jpg Both the public CDH Chat Room and private chats pop up in their own mini windows. They work like any other chat that you've seen. Type what you want to say in the text box and click "Send". Rocket science I know. You also have the ability to customize your name's text colour if you so choose.