Female Orgasm Denial

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A new Blog entry posted on Jun 6, 2017 by Mike

Heyho all.

A new Blog entry posted on Jun 5, 2017 by SenecaSky

So, most women seem to be extra horny at certain points in their cycle and mine is right after my period is over. My body is more arousable just after and that's where I am right now. Every little touch gets me super inflamed. My hubby allowed me a ruined O about 6 days ago or so and I wish I had passed because it did nothing but make me worse off.

A new Orgasm Log posted on Jun 5, 2017 by SenecaSky

Yes - Ruined orgasm

A new Blog entry posted on Jun 5, 2017 by Beggingforpermission

My schedule is weirdly open these days and I'd love to do a little online/long distance playtime and short term denial.

In particular, I have Monday-Wednesday June 12th-14th mostly open. I think it would be hot to have a 3 day tease and denial thing with someone during that time (culminating with orgasms Wednesday night).

A new Blog entry posted on May 29, 2017 by ladygodiva310

I want to be a better sub to help Sir. But I have anxiety and depression so Sir isn't as hard as we want him to be. Is there anything we can do? Please help!

A new Blog entry posted on May 22, 2017 by SenecaSky

I had an orgasm last night. First in a week. Not a long stretch and the only reason I got one if because I was tossing and turning all night and in the past, orgasms sometimes help me to fall asleep. I woke up my husband (who was a bit cranky at me) to ask permission and once given, I fell to servicing myself. I was pretty disappointed.


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